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The Murder of Betty Gore at the Hands of Desperate Housewife Candy Montgomery

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The year is 1979. Lucas, Texas, is still a relatively small town, just being discovered by the wealthier executives of Texas Instruments who were looking to settle outside the booming city limits of Dallas.

Each day as the men head off to their jobs, the women are left behind to tend to the children and the numerous mundane duties which keep the home fires burning.

These women are bored. Playdates, swimming lessons at the Y, and gossip with the other housewives are the highlight of their day.

Most of the residents attend the Lucas Methodist Church and staying active in church activities gives them one more thing to do. The yearly Vacation Bible School serves as a break to their ordinary lives and gives the kids something to do indoors during the hot Texas summers while their mothers chatter about potty training, their husband’s latest promotions, and the upcoming presidential election.

Yes, indeed, they are bored. And one of them is about to break free of it all. In ways they could never imagine.

Candy Montgomery

Even though she was a child, Candy Wheeler was quite the prima donna. She knew what she wanted and did whatever it took to get it.

Things didn't change much when Candy grew up. Always the independent spirit, Candy moved out on her own just after high school. And although she worked, she dreamed of being a full-time Mom and wife—she just hadn’t found the right man.

Candy Montgomery with husband Pat

Candy Montgomery with husband Pat

Candy dated, even had a few sexual encounters, but none of them were what she was looking for. The man she intended to marry would be wealthy—that was her first, and most steadfast, rule.

The first time she laid eyes on Pat Montgomery, she wasn’t too happy. She found him too introverted and not very handsome, but Pat was destined to be wealthy someday, so Candy gave it another chance.

When Pat proposed to Candy, she decided it was the best she could get in the foreseeable future, and so she agreed. Not yet part of the upper financial class, the couple had a small wedding followed by a fairly inexpensive honeymoon.

By 1979, Pat was earning a good income at Texas Instruments. The couple had a son and a daughter, and they had purchased their dream home in Lucas, Texas—not too far from the estate made famous by the Dallas television show popular of the time.

To outsiders looking in, Candy Montgomery appeared to have it all. The perfect life.

But Candy was bored. She needed something more.

Allan and Betty Gore

Allan Gore wasn’t a handsome man but neither was he unattractive. "Average" would be the best adjective suited to Allan. And his personality wasn’t exactly that of an introvert, but he was reserved.

During the early years of their marriage, Allan gained decent employment in the telecommunications field, while his new bride Betty Pomeroy Gore was employed as a grammar school teacher. When the couple's first child arrived, however, the Gores would become a one-income home.

After their daughter was born, Betty never could seem to regain a sense of happiness. Visiting her doctor frequently, she learned it was most likely postpartum depression (PPD). Not much was known about PPD in the 1970s, so her doctor usually just sent her on her way—sometimes with a prescription for Valium, sometimes not.

When Allan and Betty’s second daughter was born, things only got worse for Betty. She had retreated almost completely within herself. Marital relations between the couple were practically nonexistent.

Allan was at a loss. Doctors said she would get better, but she didn’t. What was a man to do?

A Casual Coupling

Candy Montgomery decided an affair was in order. An affair would give her something to look forward to, breathe fresh life into a stale marriage, and help her to feel sexy and wanted.

But where to start? Candy wasn’t sure but she’d figure it out.

During one of the weekly volleyball games hosted by the church, Candy noticed Allan. It wasn’t like they didn’t know each other; their daughters were friends, Candy considered his wife a friend. She’d just never noticed Allan “that way” before.

Following a couple weeks of flirting, Candy got straight to the point: she asked Allan if he’d be interested in having an affair. No strings attached, no “I love yous,” no plans of divorcing their spouses. Just plain old sex from time to time.

Although Allan may have been stunned at first, it didn’t take him long to agree. Candy and Allan began sneaking away for lunchtime rendezvous at some of Dallas’ less than desirable motels.

Candy was passionate about the weekly gatherings. She felt more alive than she ever had. Each day they planned to meet, she lovingly prepared a delicious lunch and made sure her lingerie was clean and pressed.

What was so wrong felt so good!

For the next few months, her affair was all Candy could think about. She even got brave enough to confide in a few friends—without naming names, of course.

Then Candy suddenly realized that it just wasn’t as thrilling anymore. It had lost its spark and she was ready to find a new lover to reignite the flame.

Candy and Allan mutually agreed to end their affair.

A Bitter Confrontation

Alisa Gore wanted to spend the night with the Montgomery kids. They were going to the drive-in theater to see Star Wars and the little girl didn’t want to miss out on the country’s hottest movie.

It was the week of Vacation Bible School and everyone was busy keeping the children entertained. Betty Gore wasn’t there but that wasn’t so unusual. And since Alisa had spent the previous evening with the Montgomerys, Candy had brought Alisa with her.

Candy attempted to call Betty a couple of times to ask about Alisa spending an additional night with them. She didn’t think much about it. Betty did have a new baby to tend to.

It was June 1980, just a few days before Father’s Day, and Candy had some errands to run, so she decided that she would just stop by the Gore home to get permission for Alisa to spend the night.

Upon her arrival at Betty’s home, Candy would be surprised to learn that Betty had discovered the affair between Candy and Allan. At first, Candy tried to deny it, but when presented with cards and letters she had given to Allan, she knew she was caught. She tried unsuccessfully to tell Betty the affair was over but Betty wasn’t convinced. Nobody was going to take her man!

A Deadly Discovery

Allan had left town just hours before Candy made the fateful visit to his home. Over Betty’s objects, Allan went on a business trip. His company gave him no choice, even with the anxiety he knew Betty was feeling about it.

A few hours after arriving at his work destination, Allan attempted to call Betty but received no answer. He would make several more calls over the next few hours, never receiving an answer. He began phoning friends and neighbors, asking them to go to the house and check on Betty and the girls.

Allan also called Candy Montgomery, who advised him that Alisa was staying the night with her. She also told him she’d seen Betty around 10 o’clock that morning and everything appeared fine.

Neighbors had visited and reported back to Allan that everything seemed normal. But as afternoon turned to evening, Gore became more insistent that those same neighbors return and check again.

Neighbor Richard Parker returned to the Gore home with two other men. This time they tried the front door and found it unlocked. Richard was immediately drawn to the whimpers of baby Bethany, where they found her in her room dehydrated and weighted down with a soiled diaper.

Realizing something was terribly wrong, the men eased through the rest of the house. Through a door standing partially open, they spotted Betty Gore. She was soaked in blood, her face so disfigured she was barely identifiable.

It was obvious Betty Gore had been murdered.


Who Killed Betty?

Murder of this magnitude didn’t occur in Lucas, Texas. Citizens were frightened. Locksmiths were working overtime and the local gun dealers couldn’t keep enough stock to meet the demands.

Although it would be a frightening thought, police wanted to believe a transient was responsible. The fact that there was no forced entry said otherwise. The alternative was to point the finger at one of their own—an even more terrifying prospect. This investigation would have to be handled delicately and by the book.

Investigators were a tad put off by Allan’s subdued demeanor during questioning. His wife had just been murdered, but he exhibited none of the emotions typical of a recent widower by violent crime: sadness, anger, a demand for the case to be solved. No, Allan Gore was a man of few words.

Police continued their investigation, questioning friends, relatives, and keeping their ear close to the ground for any gossip. One of the people they talked to was Candy Montgomery.

In the meantime, facts were coming to light; such as the killer showered following the murder, and a rubber sandal print had been discovered near the body.

Although Allan had answered “No” to the question about an extramarital affair, he called investigators back later and confessed to having had a past affair with Candy Montgomery.

It was a startling revelation and sent the investigation in a new direction. Police wanted to question Candy again, as previously she’d made no mention of her affair with Allan.

Before returning to the police station for more questioning, Candy retained the services of a defense attorney, fellow church member Don Crowder. Despite her insistence Betty was alive when she saw her earlier that day, police had quite a bit of evidence to prove Candy’s guilt.

Candy was arrested. Most citizens of Lucas were relieved, while also were shocked and horrified at the killer’s identity.

Trial and Shocking Verdict

Pat stood staunchly by his wife throughout her trial, which was quite a spectacle. Don Crowder was experienced in civil litigation and broke every rule in the book defending his criminal client, leaving many to wonder if Candy had made a good choice of attorney.

It turned out to be the best decision she ever made.

When it came time for Candy to testify, she shocked court watchers with a tale of being confronted by Betty about her affair with Allan. Candy tried to reassure Betty the affair was long ago over, but Betty refused to accept it. Candy said Betty then came at her with ax, explaining the deep cut on her toe seen by others on the murderous day in question. Outraged at being attacked, Candy claimed she grabbed the ax and began hitting Betty. Over and over and over, 41 times total, Candy hit Betty until she was down. It was then, Candy said, Betty did a very odd thing: she whispered, “Shhhhh” just before she died.

In a panic, Candy showered fully clothed, trying to remove the blood and gore from her skin and clothing. She then rushed home and changed clothes, tossing the still bloodied outfit into her own washer. And she immediately returned to the Church to finish the bible school activities.

It was a riveting tale of self-defense, but most in attendance didn’t believe the jury would buy it. After all, why didn’t Candy just leave after taking the ax away from Betty? If it really was self-defense, why didn’t she call for help afterward instead of running away, hiding evidence, and leaving a helpless baby alone in a house without proper care?

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Spectators were wrong in their assumptions, as they learned when the jury returned with a not guilty verdict. Candy and Pat left the courthouse to shouts of “Murderer!”

Questions Linger

Many in the community refused to believe Candy Montgomery‘s tale of self-defense and think she got away with cold-blooded murder.

Candy had testified Betty confronted her with proof of the affair, but a handwritten letter written by Betty to her parents just days before her murder mentions her “good friend Candy Montgomery.” And Allan Gore said his wife never confronted him about the affair or gave any indication of knowing about it the morning of his departure.

More than 30 years later, many people believe Candy attacked Betty in a fit of jealousy.

Sadly, no one will ever know for certain.

And the Years Passed

Pat and Candy remained together after the trial, selling their house and moving east to Georgia. It was only temporary, however, as the couple eventually divorced.

As of this writing, Candy lives in Georgia and goes by her maiden name of Candace Wheeler. She works alongside her daughter, Jenny, as a mental health therapist to teens and adults suffering from depression. (Ironic, huh?)

Allan Gore remarried during the time between his wife’s death and Candy’s trial. Despite his remarriage, Allan lost custody of his girls to his former in-laws and soon became estranged from them, although recent sightings on Facebook show that a relationship between father and daughters may have been re-established as of late.

Candy’s attorney Don Crowder, who won a shocking verdict despite the facts and public opinion stacked against him, committed suicide in 1999.

Book and Movie about Candy Montgomery

Reporters John Bloom and Jim Atkinson published a well-researched and very detailed book in 1984 about the case titled Evidence of Love: A True Story of Passion and Death in the Suburbs. The authors spent a great deal of time interviewing witnesses and attending the trial, as well as researching the histories of both Candy and Betty and their respective husbands.

In 1990, a made-for-television movie called A Killing In A Small Town aired. offering a dramatized recreation of events based on the aforementioned book. Although some names and other minor facts were changed, overall the film stays relatively in line with the true story. However, the book was much more detailed—especially in regards to Candy's history, and therefore I recommend it over the movie; or at least, recommend reading the book first.

It's difficult to find on DVD, but you can watch the full movie on YouTube here.

A Killing in a Small Town (trailer)

Where Are They Now? (Spoiler Warning!)

  • Candy Montgomery, now using her maiden name of Candace Wheeler, is working as a therapist in Dawsonville, Georgia—or at least she was. According to a couple of demanding emails I received from her daughter, the owner of a counseling firm, Candace no longer works in that particular facility— despite several “newsletter” type publications online which state otherwise.
  • As of December 2010, Pat Montgomery, now known as James Montgomery, was employed with EMS Technologies Defense & Space Division in Norcross, Georgia.
  • Allan Gore and Elaine Williams eventually divorced (no surprise, right?) but not before losing custody of the girls to Bob and Bertha Pomeroy (Betty Gore's parents), later becoming estranged from his daughters. However, as of this writing, Allan is "friends" with both daughters on his Facebook account (since the publishing of this article, Allan has set strict Facebook privacy rules). He currently lives in Eastport, Maine, with his wife Lindy McClellan Gore.
  • Alisa Gore, now known as Lisa Harder, is married to a successful building contractor. They live together in Newton, Kansas with their two sons.
  • Bethany Gore married in 2012 and became known as Mrs. Chad Mickey. The couple resides in Las Vegas, Nevada.
  • Charles “Bob” Pomeroy passed away June 13, 2003; his wife, Bertha Hancock Pomeroy, died on January 4, 2010.
  • Attorney Don Crowder committed suicide in 1999.

Candy (Hulu TV miniseries)

A miniseries about the murder starring Jessica Biel as Candy Montgomery and Melanie Lynskey as Betty Gore premiered in May 2022.

Trailer for Candy (TV miniseries)

© 2016 Kim Bryan


Noneavail on September 07, 2020:

Self defense is obviously a very bad joke. A million billion dollars says she cut her own friggin toe swinging the axe down at Bettys dead body laying at her feet.

Lisa Wheeler on October 12, 2019:

How can someone hacking someone else 41 times be self defense. I just read the book and still in shock she wasn't found guilty.

Judgement Day on September 11, 2019:

Something stinks in Denmark! First - why didn’t Allan Gore call the police at any time while trying to find his wife? It’s a small town ... the police would have been happy to check it out. And then when she was reported dead why didn’t he immediately travel home? On the Candace front ... her story is obviously a lie! I think it’s the truth up to the point where she gets out her business cards. After that, the story loses all logic. I think she switched the dialogue —- she put Betty’s words in her mouth and her words in Betty’s mouth. Just switch the names and the dialogue seems to be more fitting to each women’s nature.

AlwaysMore2theStory on January 28, 2019:

Nancy Crandell...thats facinating! I wish you would post more. What led you to that conclusion? What do you make of the mangled sunglasses and lens found in the garage closet? Or the insider statement that the fridge had been bloodied while on its side and couldnt have been set rightside up by Candy alone?

Yvette Williams on August 16, 2018:

I never understood how that jury could have let that skank Candy walk away after she brutally murdered poor Betty! Self defense, in Betty's house? Unbelieveable!! And i agree with the people in the community when they called her "Murderer!!"

Carma Gibson on April 22, 2018:

This whole thing is BS! I am a teacher myself. That poor woman was killed. That Candace got away with it. How in the hell did a jury find her innocent? Self defense? Wow! I love to read true crime, but I don't like an ending that is so wrong.

Modera on December 03, 2017:

I thought the whole defense was based on the "fact" that after Betty hit Candy's toe, she went "shhh", and that triggered a dissociative episode! Not after Candy had hacked Betty to bits right before she died!!

Pete Cole on October 30, 2017:

I believe what the jury failed to take into account was the affair itself, the fact that Candy started it.

Allen ended it, for which she was scorned, and his Wife stood in her way... She knew Betty would be home alone, unsuspecting, and completely unguarded.

They failed to look at who she was as a person, a jealous, manipulating woman, who targeted a nurturing Mother, who was caring for a Baby at home...

Nancy crandell on October 08, 2017:

I was the last person to talk to Candy before the murderand the first person after she came back to the church. I was never interviewed. I think she got away with murder as i knew both women.

Angie on September 23, 2017:

Candy was to care for the baby when the Gore's went on their romantic trip?! Hmmm, the same baby she left alone in the house for 12 plus hours with her murdered mother...

Maggy on August 15, 2017:

My mother just told my that Betty Gore was her 3rd grade teacher in the 1970s. I just can't believe Candace would do such a horrid thing.

Kim Bryan (author) on March 09, 2017:

@hb2a I believe it was for at least a couple of reasons: Candy had a top-notch attorney notorious for spinning these type of cases to his client's favor and she was a woman with young children at the time.

hb2a on March 08, 2017:

I won't bother expressing my opinion, pointless.

hb2a on March 08, 2017:

why didn't they find her guilty?

Kim Bryan (author) on March 08, 2017:

@halina : murder for any reason is never okay. Self-defense makes it justified but such would not have applied to either in this case so, yes, I would have been just as critical. In this particular case, neither had the right to play judge, jury, or executioner.

halina graf on March 08, 2017:

I pray one is never confronted by terror, as in an ax wielded by an obviously unhinged woman. What if the tables were turned and Betty killed Candace, would adultery be considered justifiable.

I'm sure I'll read harsh criticism, however, I wonder, what if the tables were turned, would Betty now be residing in your community, after serving over 30 years. Judge not lest......

kaci duer on December 18, 2016:

Hi. I just read your article. Very informative, however i hope you don't mind if I correct a couple of inaccuracies. The murder didn't actually happen in Lucas, it took place in a town near there called Wylie. I grew up 2 streets over from the house where it happened. Actually had the same house number, just different street names. Pretty much everything else in your article is correct. The only other inaccuracy is the year you put for Don Crowder's suicide. It was in 1998. I hope my comment doesn't offend you. Thanks.

Kim Bryan (author) on May 30, 2016:

You're not wrong, fpherj! Betty's murder was as senseless as any I've ever seen. If you're going to play adult games, you better be able to lose like the grown up you claim to be.

Suzie from Carson City on April 12, 2016:

Small town scandals. It's shocking Candy was found Not guilty. I guess dumb jurors can be found anywhere. She lucked out, considering having what was believed to be an Attorney inexperienced in criminal law.

This is a sure case of someone getting away with murder.........

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